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Divorce requires special emotional preparation. Pixabay

By Greg Summit

It would seem obvious that divorce means that you are no longer a couple. But in practice, many are faced with the fact that it is not only difficult to realize but even to translate into reality. But accepting this fact is simply vital because otherwise it will not only cause problems of an emotional nature but may even complicate the process of divorce. Let’s specifically focus on this issue and consider what can expect spouses who are preparing for the official breakup.


What Couples Face On Eve of Divorce

Divorce requires special emotional preparation, but most couples fail to prepare properly. And all this is due to the reluctance to accept the fact that marriage is over. Such rejection can cause a lot of difficulties during a divorce. Some decide to live separately and thus delay the process of starting a divorce. However, in addition to emotional stress, which will be accompanied by strange actions, problems with the trial may arise. But now let’s look at the issue of emotional state.

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Lack of Adaptation

Most likely, during the marriage, the spouses constantly informed each other about their plans or actions. Someone could call a spouse every time he/she went to the store; someone could report on every step. But now that the marriage has broken up, it would seem obvious that this will not happen again.

Hence some may still be in their world, and continue to live as usual, even though the spouse is not nearby. Some may continue to report their plans or actions to the former, which in turn will begin to annoy the future ex. This behavior will cause the desire of the second spouse to end the divorce as soon as possible, but the unwillingness of one spouse to diverge and the irritation of the second can slow down the process of divorce. Some may even deliberately delay the resolution of important issues.


Divorce and separation include proper planning. Pixabay

Emergency Calls

Also, a situation that one of the spouses begins to constantly disturb the former in emergency cases often arises. By the way, in practice, these cases are not always an emergency.

Some begin to act out the tragedy and ask to go together to the hospital or pharmacy. Others can call the ex for every little thing to complain about how their dog chewed on their shoes and so on. Someone may call to ask about car repair and so on.

This behavior also reflects an unwillingness to let go of the relationship and accept from the fact that love no longer exists. This can happen not only during the divorce proceedings but even after an official court statement.

Therefore, you need to accept that you are no longer a couple and maintain a balance with clear boundaries in communication with your spouse. By the way, some unpleasant things can occur during a separation. Most do not even think about how this can turn out.


If you understand that you have no future, then you need to start the process of divorce. Pixabay

What Problems Can Occur Because of Such Behavior?

Many do not even realize that the reluctance to accept divorce and the delay of the trial can lead to disastrous results. Usually, only one of the spouses feels this. Since if both felt it, then the end of the relationship could have been avoided. Therefore, one who hopes that delaying divorce and unwillingness to accept the fact of the end of the relationship can lead to the following unpleasant situations. Namely:

  • During a separation, the spouse can acquire new debts. And when it comes to official divorce, this debt can also lie on the shoulders of the spouse, who still have hopes for a resumption of relations.
  • A spouse can leave the state and then it may be difficult to divorce and resolve any issues.
  • A spouse can begin the process of hiding financial issues until the case comes to court. Unfortunately, this is a very common situation.
  • During the delay of divorce, laws in this area can be changed. In the future, this can cause not only difficulties but also not the most favorable outcomes of the case.
  • You or your ex can start a new relationship. If the marriage is not divorced officially, then the fact of a new relationship is not the best thing in a divorce.

These are the main situations that many couples who decide to divorce later may face. Consequently, one should not create favorable conditions for translating such situations into reality.

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Where to Start with a Divorce?

The first thing you need to start with is to take a sober look at the current situation. You need to evaluate whether your relationship really has a chance of resuming in the future or if you are simply fooling yourself. If you understand that you have no future, then you need to start the process of divorce.

If you understand that you are not ready for the court, then you can consider filing divorce papers online. All you need to do is make sure that it’s real in your state and find a specialized company that will help with the divorce packet.

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There you will receive advice on your case and you will be offered recommendations and a solution on how to fill out Arizona online divorce form. This way you can figure out all the documents and even get a cheap divorce online. Well, in addition to everything, you will save nerves, time, and money!

Authors Bio

Greg Summit has years of experience working with different types of legal documents and writing about Family Law for educational purposes. Currently, he is working at an OnlineDivorcer company, where he writing blog articles about divorce and divorce cases. In his free time, he likes roaming the streets of New York with Olympus taking photos of the best spots in the city.

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