We all know that relationships have to be worked on in order to keep the spark going but there are many things that can get in the way of this. When you lead busy lifestyles, have the responsibility of family life to manage, have financial issues to sort out, and have other commitments that get in the way of spending time together, things can get very difficult. Over recent years, there is one more thing that has affected many relationships and this is mobile technology.
Mobile technology has become hugely popular and has a positive effect on our lives in many ways. We can work more easily and flexibly, browse the Internet, contact friends and family, make purchases, enjoy entertainment, and much more thanks to this technology. However, the downside is that some people become obsessed with mobile technology and the services that they can access on these devices, and this can really get in the way of a relationship.
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When it comes to mobile phones, there are many people that are barely ever seen without their device in their hand. While it is find to use your phone while out and about or when making and taking calls, spending more time on your device rather than talking to your partner can cause a lot of issues. If you already get little enough time to work on your relationship, the last thing you want is to find that your partner is more interested in their phone during the short periods you do get to spend together. This is why it is important to talk and lay down some ground rules when it comes to mobile phone usage as a couple.
If your partner is using their mobile phone a huge amount, it can even create paranoia as you may think they are up to no good. Many people have gone onto their partner’s social media accounts or used tools to find out whose phone number is on their partner’s log because they have become suspicious. Often, it is all perfectly innocent but that doesn’t mean that you won’t become worried or paranoid if your partner spends more time on their mobile device than they do talking to you.
It is important for both partners to be aware of the ground rules when it comes to mobile phone use. Of course, if you have an urgent call or a family member needs to get in touch you should take the call. However, when you are both snuggling up to watch a movie and one of you then goes on their phone and starts messing around on social media, it can ruin the whole experience. When you spend time together, it should be quality time where you can talk, watch films, listen to music, go out for meals, and do other things you enjoy rather than just watching one another using mobile phones in total silence.