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7 Unfailing Ways To Impress Your Lady Love & Swoon Her Off Her Feet

Valentine's day is around the corner and one can easily spot the lovebirds roaming around. The day marks the expression of love and warmth

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Intelligence is one major attribute that draws women. Wikimedia Commons
Intelligence is one major attribute that draws women. Wikimedia Commons

It’s famously said, “Impressing A Girl Is Hard.” Believe it or not, impressing a lady isn’t that difficult or complicated. No matter how many times you hear people around you that wooing a girl requires a master trick, it isn’t as hard as it seems. But yes, there are just certain ways that happen to touch her more.

Therefore, if you wish to win her heart, create your space and give her all the butterflies everytime she thinks about you, know these foolproof ways to impress the lady and make a loving impression on her. Take the guide:

  1. Cook For Her

Not all guys love to cook but for sure, all ladies love to see their man cook. For them, it’s a scene that explicitly shows how much a man loves them. So, cook something she loves.Even if you aren’t good in cooking, show your efforts.

  1. Give Non-Materialistic Gifts

Materialistic gifts excite lazy girls. If you think your lady is one real gem you are and shall always be proud to own, she will feel loved even with small thoughtful gifts. Whether it’s the bangles or her favourite candy, you must observe those little things she finds joy in and fulfil those ones.

Also Read: Is observance of Valentine’s day a Commination For The Indian Culture?

  1. Discuss Intelligent Topics

Intelligence is one major attribute that draws women. So, make sure you show off your grey matter to her. This definitely doesn’t mean you have to make her look like a fool. Engage in conversations you both are able to take participate equally well in.

  1. Compliment Her

Tell her how beautiful she looks. Tell her you like certain attributes that have drawn you closer to her. In one way or the other, make her feel good and confident about herself. Also, she should acknowledge that you are noticing positive things in her.

If you let her know how much you love her and cannot live without her, there are chances she’d fear to commit and draw away stating she needs time. Wikimedia Commons
If you let her know how much you love her and cannot live without her, there are chances she’d fear to commit and draw away stating she needs time. Wikimedia Commons
  1. Surprise Her

Give her surprises. Drive to her place and let her know you are waiting outside. Send a sudden text letting her know she means to you. Plan something exciting for her without letting her know beforehand, deliver her a pretty flower basket for Valentines day gifts etc. She is definitely going to fall for your sweet and surprising acts.

  1. Give Her Subtle Hints

Don’t be too open about your feelings. Don’t tell her instantly and flatly how much you like her. Hints work better. If you let her know how much you love her and cannot live without her, there are chances she’d fear to commit and draw away stating she needs time. So, keep your pace slow.

Also Read: 20 best valentine’s day gift ideas for him & her

  1. Take Care

Last but not the least, take care of her. Dropping her to her place, texting her just to check if she has reached safely, wishing her the first Good Morning, being mindful of her mood swings and cravings are some ways to let her know you care.

With these foolproof ways, you are definitely going to impress the lady you’ve been trying to tell your feelings to for long.

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How To Deal With A Jealous Partner?

This issue can’t get fixed over a day. But if you be patient and show your partner that you are always with him/her, by supporting through problems, discussing fears, celebrating small but important victories, and take it one day at a time, things will definitely change.

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Anxiety and fear are the two most common human emotions that lead to jealousy.

How harmful is jealousy?

Jealousy is enough to kill a relationship. Although at the beginning of the relationship, you might feel jealousy to be cute, with the time you will be able to see the true negative picture of jealousy.

What can be done?

Here are certain ways to deal with a jealous partner:

  • You should talk to your partner about his/her anxieties and fears

Anxiety and fear are the two most common human emotions that lead to jealousy. So to deal with a jealous partner, the first thing you must do is talk to him/her that the reasons for his/her anxieties and fears with the relationship and you.

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Most importantly when your partner decides to confess, instead of attacking him/her, show your empathy and try to solve the issue. Pixabay

The reason can be anything from she’s putting up weight which makes her thinks that you don’t love him anymore to your past casual relationship which you ended years ago, reasons can be very weird. But most importantly when your partner decides to confess, instead of attacking him/her, show your empathy and try to solve the issue.

  • Never develop defensive behavior

If you are being accused by your partner for something which you actually haven’t done, don’t start an argument about it. The more get defensive, the chances are that your partner will misinterpret the reaction and think that you are defensive because you want to hide something. Instead, you should reassure your partner that you haven’t done what he/she accused you of doing and settle the fear that your partner has developed.

  • Show all your affection

It’s time for you to show all your affection towards your partner. No matter how rude he/she behaves, don’t deny showing your partner how much he/she means to you. This would definitely help your partner to psychologically heal faster.

  • Create a boundary

This is a very sensible way of handling a relationship. Discuss with your partner about the likes and dislikes of each other and set boundaries accordingly so that in the long run things don’t get ugly and hence there are no chances for the rise of jealousy.

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It’s time for you to show all your affection towards your partner. Pixabay
  • Be responsive and available to your partner

Yes, it is your partner’s problem and he/she is the one to fix it. But instead of avoiding the issue be responsive about it. When your partner needs you the most, if you make yourself available for any help then the habits of jealousy often gets eroded. This also would help to redevelop the trust issues in the relationship.

  • Be patient to earn your back partner’s trust

This issue can’t get fixed over a day. But if you be patient and show your partner that you are always with him/her, by supporting through problems, discussing fears, celebrating small but important victories, and take it one day at a time, things will definitely change.

  • Make sure there isn’t a communication gap

Communication gap is the poison that spoils everything. The root of all fears, anxieties and doubts are because of communication gap. To develop healthy communication and make time for your partner. There won’t be any scope for jealousy to be created.

A jealous partner, in the long run, becomes intrusive and irritating. This is enough to spoil the love that you have for your partner and ultimately affect your relationship in a negative way. So try to sort out the issue and if all the damage-control measures fail, then it’s better to move out of the relationship.