Relationship Advice : If a Guy Makes You Choose, Choose Yourself over Him

Love
If he makes you choose, then he's not the one for you. Pixabay

Love is said to be the purest form of emotions where nothing is above the happiness of your lover. But if a guy makes you choose, is he really the one for you? A relationship is true only without conditions.  There are some things you just can’t let slide:

  1. Your Friends vs Him

    It is important to know your friends are just as important as his. Pixabay

Does he make you choose between hanging out with your friends and him? It’s important to know your friends are just as important as his but if he makes you choose, think about the health of the relationship again.

 

  1. Your choice of Clothes vs His Choice

    He should not make a fuss about what you wear. Pixabay

We all are entitled to wear what we want; skirts or sarees, shorts or suits, crop tops or sweatshirts it’s all our choice and not anyone else’s. If he makes a fuss about what you wear, is changing clothes for your relationship really worth it?

  1. Consensual Sex vs His will

It’s worth it only if it’s consensual

If you are not ready for the next step, you are simply not ready and anything he says or does should not make you think otherwise. In a relationship there is a bond of love not the idea of sex, he will respect your decision and wait for when you want to.

  1. Free will vs Settling down

    Forcing someone to get married is definitely not a green signal from a guy. Pixabay

In the day and age of 2017, there are certain goals everyone wants to achieve before getting married which could be career-wise, personality wise or even life skills. Forcing someone to get married is definitely not a green signal from a guy. If you don’t want to get settled just yet, he should respect that or else is he worth the wait?

  1. Career Support vs Career Shaming

Growing up, we all aspire to become something successful in our respective fields and when someone looks down on you for something you’re passionate about, is that really love? If your guy can’t support your career decisions and paths how do you think he will satisfy being “the one”?

  1. You vs Him

If he makes you choose between his personal desires and yours, it’s a red signal to back up. An individual should respect one’s personal choices as much the other respects theirs.

If you have nodded your head in disappointment to any of the following pointers in your relationship then you should put on your thinking cap and dwell on your current situation. If he is making you choose then definitely he is not the one.

 

Prepared by Tanya Kathuria of Newsgram; Twitter: @TanyaKathuria97