January 10, 2017: Taking forward Prime Minister Narendra Modi’s initiative of a cashless country, a mason in Jharkhand became the first groom to opt for a cashless wedding. The wedding took place in Badiya village of Musabani under East Singhbhum district on January 9.
The Deputy Collector of Chief Minister Camp Office, Sanjay Kumar, convinced 30-year-old Subhash Nayak of Badiya village to marry Sunita of Chakradharpur in the first cashless wedding of the region.
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The wedding was completely dowry-free. All the payments including vegetables, ration, tent house, jewellers and even the priest were paid through cheque.
The manager of Bank of India visited the venue of the wedding and opened a savings account for the newlywed and handed over the debit cards.
According to PTI report, the wedding was attended by BJP MLA Laxman Tudu, DSP Ajit Kumar Bimal, Environment activist Jamuna Tudu, Mukhiya Dulari Mumru and Circle Officer of Musaboni, Sadhu Charan Devgam. All the invitee handed the cheques as gifts to the newlywed.
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Sanjay Kumar, Deputy Collector, gave a cheque to the priest after the wedding. All the arrangements were done by the groom side.
Everyone in the village was excited to witness the first cashless wedding of the region. Kiran Tent House, Priest Vikas Mahapatro, and vegetable vendor Chakraborty accepted cheques as the payment of the wedding.All of them were quite positive with the initiative. Vinod Pandit, the jeweler, gave silver jewelery to the bride as the gift.
The cashless wedding took place the Naya Tola Mandir at Badia in East Singhbhum district. The groom’s houses did not have a toilet. Kumar got it constructed within 11 hours. He said, “The toilet was also built without using cash. The mason was paid through cheque.” Prior to the wedding, family members from both the sides volunteered in the construction of a toilet in the groom’s house.
Groom’s Uncle Madan Nayak said that all the arrangements including ration, jeweler vegetables, tent house and priest were paid through draft, swipe machine or cheques.
As an uneducated tribal woman, Tetri Devi, 51, has seen many struggles, but seeing her youngest child, Anshu Kacchap, scale heights in football and visit the UK to play an inter-school football tournament has brought alive dreams, hopes and the zeal to continue her fight against the naysayers. Girls like Anshu are breaking the mould and smashing the glass ceiling with football.
Tetri revealed that when Anshu started playing football, everyone in the community, including her husband, was against the idea. “A girl wearing shorts and spending time playing football was not only looked down upon but was fiercely opposed by many. I remember being stopped by villagers concerned about me allowing the girl to play football and being called out for being a bad mother,” she said, adding that every snide comment she ignored and every advice she didn’t heed was “worth the trouble”.
With her husband unemployed for the larger part of the year, Tetri earns a living for her family of six – among them four daughters, of whom Anshu is the youngest – by selling Hadiya, a locally brewed rice beer in the nearby haats (rural market) in Pahan Toli, a remote village on the outskirts of Ranchi. Football has given her and her daughter a reason to dream again.
Anshu has been associated with OSCAR (Organization for Social Change, Awareness and Responsibility) Foundation’s football training programme, which runs from Chari Huzir on the outskirts of Ranchi, for five years now. She has not only represented Jharkhand in national tournaments but has also been one of the eight girls from Jharkhand who played in a UK Schools Tour, OSCAR ‘Kick Like a Girl’ in October last year.
The transformation through football wasn’t an easy one for the 200-odd girls who have taken to the sport around Irba and Kanke. Social stigma aside, acute poverty and challenges like the lack of even a single square meal, looming threats of early marriage and absence of support from their families have been a problem for these tribal girls, living about 30 kilometres from Ranchi. Through all the struggle, football has been their tool against fear, one kick at a time.
Shital Toppo, a student of commerce at a local college, said she was in disbelief when she found out she would be going to Russia in 2018 to watch a FIFA World Cup match as a part of the Football for Hope Movement, a project of FIFA to promote football as a medium for development and growth. She said the first time she went on the field, she couldn’t even manage to kick the ball for the first week.
“I was all awkward wearing the sports gear, and afraid of people judging me,” she reminisced. But it wasn’t all bad for Toppo, who played a friendly match with other members of the delegation from all over the world. She even befriended a representative from Brazil, Barbara.
“Football has changed my stand in the society and without it, I would have simply dropped out of school like many other girls in my village,” she said. Not only has she inspired her elder brother to resume education, but also many other children in her village to become a part of the change that football has initiated in her life.
For Tinky Kumari, 16, like hundreds of young girls in the area, an early wedding was supposed to celebrate her passing the matriculation examinations. Her elder brother, a school dropout himself, forced her to work as a farm labourer but football became her weapon of protest.
“My brother didn’t hesitate to beat me up just to stop me from playing football,” she recalled. She said her trip to the UK was a turning point as now everyone in her family has finally stopped talking about marrying her off. With her parents’ support, she is now continuing her education.
The narrative of how football empowered these village girls is a story that never fails to inspire. Helena Tete, 53, has been mentoring the girls since the early days of the programme. She has been a witness to the story of these girls and how football has empowered them to become what they are.
She recalled that when the training started in 2013, the girls taking part in the training were scared and hesitant. Their families were reluctant as they didn’t see a future in sports for them, she said. “Today, every time they play a national tournament or win a match, it is such a proud moment for us,” she added.
Started in Chari Huzir in Kanke block, the programme by OSCAR foundation now covers eight different tolas (a group of villages). A few players from the training institute have made it to Under-15 and Under-17 teams of Jharkhand.
Though professional football will not be a part of the larger plan for many girls, for now they are rewriting their life through a sport that has helped them realise their worth in the world.
“I started playing football when I was in class eight and I arrived on the field wearing a traditional skirt,” recalled Anshu. She thought people would make fun of her but instead, she became less conscious over time and mastered the sport.
She noted that the most important factor in her story was her mother’s decision to let her play. “As I teach young girls now, it feels good to be a person who others look up to,” added Anshu, who dreams of taking her football career forward along with higher studies. (IANS)