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Parted Ways with Loved One? It’s Time to Get Your Ex Back !

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Sep 22, 2017: Has your ex ever cheated on you? Do you suffer from sleepless nights? Do you miss your ex? Do you want to plot revenge? Here are some ways in which you can get your ex back.

Foremost thing- Stop crying!!

You have wasted a good amount of time on crying and burning your eyes. Now, Pause and Rewind. Your ex might have dumped you for any reason; however, it is the time to get buckled up. We now believe you are over the emotional drama and now understand a few things.

Here is one thing- ‘If you cry you die’. If you project yourself weak, he/she might never come back to you.

How to get your ex back

Chance to utilize the time constructively

Think about the reasons what triggered the breakdown of your relationship. Was it looks? Was it your behavior? Was it any blunder you couldn’t undo?

Once you have identified the problems start working on them one by one. After breakup smart people use the time in building themselves and transforming themselves as a better individual. If you are likely to repeat the same mistakes, you will reach nowhere.

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Don’ts, Just Don’t

Some things you are not expected to do and you shouldn’t.

Don’t text your ex. Now is the time you should stop texting him, if you have been doing that religiously because chances are they might never realize your importance. ‘Value is the key in relationship’. Would you like to be treated as a person with less value? Of course not

How to solve relationship problems

No boycott from social media

Keep him/her in your social media circle.

Post good pictures of yours to show them you are still a happy soul

Hang out with friends

Surround yourself with positive energy and meditate.

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Live it up again

Get hold of things you always wanted. No ex-likes to digest the fact that their lovers can be happy without them and that’s what you have to do. You will have to take away all the attention they were gratified with. You can’t let bear the satisfaction of stealing the happiness from your life.

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Time to pamper self

Start concentrating on your looks. Seeing you fine tuning yourself will ignite the lost long love back. For they have seen you happy without them, beautiful without them, strong without them and probably now they want you back.

Get yourself a haircut

Buy new clothes

Go to the gym

Ways to get your ex back

Mull over your past

Analyze your past relationship in terms of the pros and cons.

What if the same mistake repeats itself and what if nothing works out after putting in so much effort?

Is the person really worth making effort or should you move on?

Once you have found all the answers and if you have come out with a positive response, then you are ready to take a step further.

Ways to get your ex back

No response to first call/message

They have tried to contact you but you seem busy in your work. You are doing this because you want them to know you are not desperate for their love and attention.

Now you kept him waiting for quite a long time now, accept his/her call next time bell rings.

Ways to get your ex back

Post-breakup talks

Stay formal and do not complain about anything happened between you both.

Judge your ex in terms of their intentions

(Don’t melt yet)

No need to tell you missed of the beautiful memories in a clever way

Do not ask for any pity or promises from your ex because that will mean you still hold high expectations from this relationship

Ways to get your ex back

Ask him/her out

Take it as a chance of building up the attraction again

Dress your best and take the walk of confidence

If it goes well, you can start resolving issues

But don’t go further because there is no point digging old graves and recollecting bad memories

Start afresh and give yourself a new beginning


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Couples have tough time understanding soft negative emotions like sadness, loneliness of each other: Study.
Couples have tough time understanding soft negative emotions like sadness, loneliness of each other: Study.
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Your spouse may react immediately when you feel anger, but is he/she equally good at knowing when you feel sad or lonely? No, suggests new research.

Couples do pretty well at picking up one another’s more intense feelings, like happiness or anger, but they are not as sensitive to “soft negative” emotions, said the study published in the journal Family Process. Couples do poorly when it comes to knowing their partner is sad, lonely or feeling down, the findings showed.

Couples do poorly when it comes to soft negative emotions of each other.
Couples do poorly when it comes to soft negative emotions of each other.

“We found that when it comes to the normal ebb and flow of daily emotions, couples aren’t picking up on those occasional changes in ‘soft negative’ emotions like sadness or feeling down,” said study lead author Chrystyna Kouros, Associate Professor at Southern Methodist University, Dallas, US.

The researchers believe that even when a negative mood is not related to the relationship, it ultimately can be harmful to a couple. “Failing to pick up on negative feelings one or two days is not a big deal,” Kouros said.

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“But if this accumulates, then down the road it could become a problem for the relationship. It’s these missed opportunities to be offering support or talking it out that can compound over time to negatively affect a relationship,” she added.

For the study, over 100 participants completed daily diaries about their mood and the mood of their partners for seven consecutive nights. The problem is not one for which couples need to seek therapy, Kouros said.

Instead, she advises couples to stop assuming they know what their partner is feeling. “I suggest couples put a little more effort into paying attention to their partner — be more mindful and in the moment when you are with your partner,” she said.

She cautions, however, against becoming annoying by constantly asking how the other is feeling, or if something is wrong. IANS