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Parted Ways with Loved One? It’s Time to Get Your Ex Back !

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Ways to get your ex back. Pixabay

Sep 22, 2017: Has your ex ever cheated on you? Do you suffer from sleepless nights? Do you miss your ex? Do you want to plot revenge? Here are some ways in which you can get your ex back.

Foremost thing- Stop crying!!

You have wasted a good amount of time on crying and burning your eyes. Now, Pause and Rewind. Your ex might have dumped you for any reason; however, it is the time to get buckled up. We now believe you are over the emotional drama and now understand a few things.

Here is one thing- ‘If you cry you die’. If you project yourself weak, he/she might never come back to you.

How to get your ex back

Chance to utilize the time constructively

Think about the reasons what triggered the breakdown of your relationship. Was it looks? Was it your behavior? Was it any blunder you couldn’t undo?

Once you have identified the problems start working on them one by one. After breakup smart people use the time in building themselves and transforming themselves as a better individual. If you are likely to repeat the same mistakes, you will reach nowhere.

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Don’ts, Just Don’t

Some things you are not expected to do and you shouldn’t.

Don’t text your ex. Now is the time you should stop texting him, if you have been doing that religiously because chances are they might never realize your importance. ‘Value is the key in relationship’. Would you like to be treated as a person with less value? Of course not

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No boycott from social media

Keep him/her in your social media circle.

Post good pictures of yours to show them you are still a happy soul

Hang out with friends

Surround yourself with positive energy and meditate.

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Live it up again

Get hold of things you always wanted. No ex-likes to digest the fact that their lovers can be happy without them and that’s what you have to do. You will have to take away all the attention they were gratified with. You can’t let bear the satisfaction of stealing the happiness from your life.

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Time to pamper self

Start concentrating on your looks. Seeing you fine tuning yourself will ignite the lost long love back. For they have seen you happy without them, beautiful without them, strong without them and probably now they want you back.

Get yourself a haircut

Buy new clothes

Go to the gym

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Mull over your past

Analyze your past relationship in terms of the pros and cons.

What if the same mistake repeats itself and what if nothing works out after putting in so much effort?

Is the person really worth making effort or should you move on?

Once you have found all the answers and if you have come out with a positive response, then you are ready to take a step further.

Ways to get your ex back

No response to first call/message

They have tried to contact you but you seem busy in your work. You are doing this because you want them to know you are not desperate for their love and attention.

Now you kept him waiting for quite a long time now, accept his/her call next time bell rings.

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Post-breakup talks

Stay formal and do not complain about anything happened between you both.

Judge your ex in terms of their intentions

(Don’t melt yet)

No need to tell you missed of the beautiful memories in a clever way

Do not ask for any pity or promises from your ex because that will mean you still hold high expectations from this relationship

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Ask him/her out

Take it as a chance of building up the attraction again

Dress your best and take the walk of confidence

If it goes well, you can start resolving issues

But don’t go further because there is no point digging old graves and recollecting bad memories

Start afresh and give yourself a new beginning

 

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How To Deal With A Jealous Partner?

This issue can’t get fixed over a day. But if you be patient and show your partner that you are always with him/her, by supporting through problems, discussing fears, celebrating small but important victories, and take it one day at a time, things will definitely change.

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Anxiety and fear are the two most common human emotions that lead to jealousy.

How harmful is jealousy?

Jealousy is enough to kill a relationship. Although at the beginning of the relationship, you might feel jealousy to be cute, with the time you will be able to see the true negative picture of jealousy.

What can be done?

Here are certain ways to deal with a jealous partner:

  • You should talk to your partner about his/her anxieties and fears

Anxiety and fear are the two most common human emotions that lead to jealousy. So to deal with a jealous partner, the first thing you must do is talk to him/her that the reasons for his/her anxieties and fears with the relationship and you.

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Most importantly when your partner decides to confess, instead of attacking him/her, show your empathy and try to solve the issue. Pixabay

The reason can be anything from she’s putting up weight which makes her thinks that you don’t love him anymore to your past casual relationship which you ended years ago, reasons can be very weird. But most importantly when your partner decides to confess, instead of attacking him/her, show your empathy and try to solve the issue.

  • Never develop defensive behavior

If you are being accused by your partner for something which you actually haven’t done, don’t start an argument about it. The more get defensive, the chances are that your partner will misinterpret the reaction and think that you are defensive because you want to hide something. Instead, you should reassure your partner that you haven’t done what he/she accused you of doing and settle the fear that your partner has developed.

  • Show all your affection

It’s time for you to show all your affection towards your partner. No matter how rude he/she behaves, don’t deny showing your partner how much he/she means to you. This would definitely help your partner to psychologically heal faster.

  • Create a boundary

This is a very sensible way of handling a relationship. Discuss with your partner about the likes and dislikes of each other and set boundaries accordingly so that in the long run things don’t get ugly and hence there are no chances for the rise of jealousy.

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It’s time for you to show all your affection towards your partner. Pixabay
  • Be responsive and available to your partner

Yes, it is your partner’s problem and he/she is the one to fix it. But instead of avoiding the issue be responsive about it. When your partner needs you the most, if you make yourself available for any help then the habits of jealousy often gets eroded. This also would help to redevelop the trust issues in the relationship.

  • Be patient to earn your back partner’s trust

This issue can’t get fixed over a day. But if you be patient and show your partner that you are always with him/her, by supporting through problems, discussing fears, celebrating small but important victories, and take it one day at a time, things will definitely change.

  • Make sure there isn’t a communication gap

Communication gap is the poison that spoils everything. The root of all fears, anxieties and doubts are because of communication gap. To develop healthy communication and make time for your partner. There won’t be any scope for jealousy to be created.

A jealous partner, in the long run, becomes intrusive and irritating. This is enough to spoil the love that you have for your partner and ultimately affect your relationship in a negative way. So try to sort out the issue and if all the damage-control measures fail, then it’s better to move out of the relationship.