
Rekha shares a three-decade-long bond with her secretary-manager, Farzana Jaffery
Their relationship is shrouded in mystery
Rekha’s life has been marked by admiration, controversy, and speculation.
Rekha has always been an icon of Bollywood, a star to whom many women look up. But it’s not just her reel life that generates curiosity among fans, her personal life, too, has often been in the spotlight. From her relationship with Amitabh Bachchan to her short-lived marriage with her late husband, Mukesh Aggarwal. Rekha’s life has been the subject of endless speculation. Yet there is another bond in Rekha’s life that has remained constant. Her relationship with her manager of 30 years, Farzana Jaffery. She is one of the people who hold a special place in Rekha’s heart. In recent times, this relationship has once again drawn public attention.
According to writer Yasser Usman, author of Rekha: The Untold Story, Rekha shares a mysterious relationship with Farzana Jaffery. She is the only person allowed in Rekha’s bedroom. Everyone in the film fraternity knows Rekha never moves without her.
Rekha’s relationship with Farzana evolved over the years. Farzana started her career as an assistant director but soon realised it wasn’t her cup of tea. In an interview with Masala, Yasser Usman revealed that Farzana’s father was a production controller and, when she first entered the industry, she wanted to be a director. She assisted in some films but eventually decided it wasn’t for her. She then got in touch with Rekha and became her secretary-cum-manager in the mid-80s. This began an association that has lasted for 30 years. Yasser added that there was a time when Farzana’s mother was sick, so she would attend to her in the morning and then rush to Rekha — “she has literally given her life for Rekha.” Today, it is impossible to reach Rekha without going through Farzana.
When Rekha’s husband died by suicide, even though his note stated that no one was responsible. The whole nation was ready to blame her. During this difficult period, Farzana remained by her side. A trusted aide, a pillar of strength, a staunch supporter, and much more. Always dressed in smart suits and sporting a short hairdo, Farzana never shies away from stepping into the shadows respectfully while Rekha enjoys the spotlight. And as soon as the flashlights stop, she is quick to take charge and lead the way for Rekha. Over the years, age has added spectacles to Farzana's look, but the mystery around her bond with Rekha continues to flourish in secrecy.
After an excerpt, credited to Yasser Usman, claimed that Rekha and Farzana were in a relationship went viral. The netizens quickly speculated that the actress was in a live-in romance with her manager. The alleged excerpt stated:
"Farzana is a perfect partner for Rekha. She is her consultant, her friend, and her supporter, and Rekha simply can't live without her. In fact, only Rekha's trusted secretary Farzana who some have claimed is her lover is permitted inside her bedroom, not even domestic help are allowed entry.”
However, Yasser discredited this and objected to the use of the term live-in. He clarified and criticised the speculation in a statement:
"The quotes alleging a 'live-in relationship' ascribed to my book 'Rekha The Untold Story' are a complete fabrication, falsification and misrepresentation evidently intended to create sensationalism. I vehemently assert that the quotes mentioned in the media articles are entirely absent from my book. Furthermore, throughout the entire manuscript, the phrases 'live-in relationship' or 'hermetic existence' or 'the biography claiming the relationship is sexual' have never been used. These incorrect quotes are a result of poor clickbait journalism keep on resurfacing every few years. If these quotes attributed to me or my book Rekha The Untold Story are not immediately rectified, we will not hesitate to pursue legal action against the publication responsible."
Rekha has always been an open book, known for giving some of the most entertaining interviews and often appearing transparent on camera. In one of her appearances on Rendezvous with Simi Garewal, when Simi Garewal asked if she was planning to get married again, Rekha, with her trademark wit, replied, “To a man?” When Simi further asked “Well, not a woman, obviously?” with a playful smile, Rekha added, “Why not?”
Rekha seems to have had a life filled with both admiration and controversy, with various speculations and allegations trailing her. This relationship remains one such rumour. Her wittiness may spark questions, but this is who she is. While the mystery remains a mystery, Rekha continues to be an evergreen beauty forever. [Rh/VP]